Back to more funny office stories - they really keep my job interesting and always a little bit of fun.
Many of my "new" young parents worry (haven't we all?) and one of the new comments I have started to hear is "why is my baby not crawling?" Well, for one reason, they are only 6 months old! I know we are expecting children to achieve some milestones at younger and younger ages, an example of this is reading. But while not all children are ready to read at 4-5 years, MOST children do not crawl until they are around 9 months of age.
I am suddenly having moms and a few dads ask me how to "teach their baby to crawl"? What??? This is new to me. I wish I could remember each of my own children as they learned to crawl. It is just a foggy memory now, but I do remember that suddenly they were mobile, and that changes everything!
Babies instinctively want to move and explore their environment. For most babies, if you have been doing "tummy time", which is followed by your baby learning to sit, they suddenly figure out how to go from the sitting position back to their tummy. Why? That maneuver is the precursor to learning to crawl. They just do it! You need to put them on the floor and let them figure it out. You DO NOT need to crawl around the house.
While you will have to help "teach" your child to walk, in a manner of speaking, they WILL just crawl if given the opportunity. That means putting them down and letting them figure out how to move. I had one mother who asked me if "her baby could sit in the grass?" She was afraid to even let the child touch the ground. Other parents are worried that it is "too dirty" for their child to sit on the floor and crawl. The world is full of dirt, grass and who knows what else, but children have to spend some time on the floor to learn to crawl.
Take home message....no instructions for a baby to crawl, they just figure it out, and we parents figure out that some of the things our wonderful children accomplish are despite us!